Yoko Love... Maybe Not!
Like there are people bashing Yoko like crazy, there are people that make you feel that if you don't love her, you'll burn in the fire of hell 'cause Saint John [Lennon] won't let you be in Heaven.
I know is tiring to hear Yoko bashing everywhere, but the people rubbing Yoko love in your face when you don’t give a sh*t about her is also tiring. There are people like me that doesn’t hate her, but doesn’t love her either, and they can live a peaceful life without hearing/reading her name [specially her voice] and people would make you feel like not a real fan [of The Beatles] just because you don’t trust in John’s common sense of falling in love with her. The most frequent example is “If John loved her, you should do it too”, well, my response to that, people said the same thing with Heather Mills, and look what happened to the people that trusted in Paul’s common sense of falling in love with her, we just CAN’T judge someone we don’t know, in a good or bad way.
I can’t seem to love Yoko [even if I tried] ‘cause we don’t have anything in common, I don’t really like her music, I don’t understand her art, believes, way of thinking, there’s just nothing that I can find appealing to even say that “I like her”.
And to the people that have tried to make me feel like I don’t deserve to call myself a Lennon fan, I just can tell them that I bet John would have understood why I don’t like his wife more than they do.
I stopped bashing Yoko when I understood that I don’t know her enough to really judge her and make an opinion of her, so, I only make ‘neutral’ talks about her, sometimes I confess the things I agree about of what she does and maybe some times I say what I don’t like of the things she have done, but are opinions based in real facts, not in fantasy idiotic things like “Oh she’s a witch and she broke up the Beatles”. [Like I said, I stopped that shit ‘cause I stopped caring].
I just say that no one has the right to hate her without knowing her or a real fact, that you truly know it happened [Like the one’s that says that she broke up the Beatles, if you have real facts that proves that theory, well, go and tell it to the world, write a book or something, but if you don’t, just keep it to yourself] and the one’s that blindly loves her just because John did, you should start making your own decisions and think for yourself, specially when you’re preaching your love for her and trying to brainwash other people to love her too.
The point of all this, is that I make my own decisions, and I decided not to give a sh*t about her, and it totally annoys me when people is trying to shove Yoko into my life, to me, she’s only John Lennon’s widow.